#gem-ryan

🤝 Welcome!

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• @Gem
• @Ryan

Hello hello!! Nice to meet you!

Hey Gem! It’s very nice to meet you!!!

nice to meet you too! how has your day been? so sorry i took a minute to reply ive been chilling after grocery shopping

i was on fortnite collecting sprites lol

No problems at all!

I haven’t played Fortnite in a minute

Last time was when the GOT collab came

that was a good collab! the jon snow skin was really cool

Oh for sure

Got is my favourite show and I just had watched it so I loooooveeed it

Love Daenerys so was super cool

How are you going Gem?

Morning morning!

One of my favorite characters in all of television ever!!! There’s a lot of cool female characters I’ve loved like over the years but she just stands out so much to me I wish they hadn’t gone with a route of driving her mad like within the timeline of what we get to see, because I don’t see that being out of the realm of possibility for her but I would’ve imagined it more in her older age? Something more drawn out over years of time

I’m doing well thanks! Just getting myself together to go into my work office later today, trying to get some things done before I drive out there

How’re you?

Hey good morning!

I’m doing well just about to go to work unfortunately but had a good day yesterday

Hopefully work treated you well!

Yessss I 100% agree like you could do it a couple ways I think Jon and her should of been power couple and sat on the thrown together but then you could like do a closing shot at the end of the series and show something change in her eyes as like start of her going mad or whatever but like I thought it was ssooooo rushed and contradicted her character the whole series

Which the build up was so patient and articulate

Thank you it was a good day, yeah, I had a rough meeting but it happens

That would’ve been amazing

See now that would’ve stuck with me instead of her being written to die 😭

Especially because of how they built it up!!

I am sorry to hear that. What do you work?

Exactly it is like what could of happened to her in the future and opens possibility for spin off etc

Now it is just dead

And it is so upsetting because she was my favourite character in my favourite tv show

i work w folks w disabilities! im a case manager at a state office and it's not that my work is too hard for me it's how long it takes me to emotionally recover or energetically recover if im thrown off my groove like it takes me a week to get back on track depending on the thing, like this spring my nephew was in the hospital a couple times so i struggled a tad and yesterday my supervisor was like we need to meet more because you're not catching up quick enough

i love my job, i find it so rewarding

but the deadlines kill me

i know she was my favorite female lead in that show, with maisie's character in a very close second, but, she's also probably one of my favorite female leads ever

and yeah now she's just gone

did u say what other shows u like, or what else u like to do for fun?

if im not around and im not at work im probably on fortnite or world of warcraft, or spending time w my family

also hope u had a good day! sorry shouldve led w that lol

That is a really important job, like I am super appreciative of what you do for the community!!! I definitely understand that for sure like its a tough job. I work with kids with disabilities as a learning assistant so understand like the minor end of that scale. I am sorry to hear about your nephew - hoping he is better now.

I am a state league basketball coach like for U16 (14 or 15 year olds), that takes up a lot of my time. I love watching tv haha and binge watching shows - I am a bit of a loner at times so immerse myself in the shows. Just finished off campus and watching every year after atm. I am a big sport dude as well in Aus!

I hope you did to!!!

So now that we are together what are you thinking for the vote?

I have heard so much stuff lol

Morning morning!

Oh that’s awesome so you work similarly! It’s a tough but rewarding field of work for sure

Oh that’s so cool, spending time w kids in the community to help them learn a sport that’s really awesome!

I get the vibe of like chilling alone w shows and other medias I like movies and tv shows as well and I get immersed in things pretty easily to where I can’t always like wait for my husband or a friend to catch up on a show w me just because I’m too invested lol

But yeah that’s cool, and sports are always really fun and entertaining! I like watching hockey the most but I’ll watch just about any sport

I’m not set on the vote yet tbh

Hey sorry I was only online for five minutes when the vote happened

I’ve been coaching kids all day

Oh 100% very rewarding but extremely tough

I know and like it’s such a good feeling when that happens like I really feel involved lol and I’m just sitting on the couch😂

Oooh ice hockey! Have you seen off campus?

I was surprised by what happened lol

morning morning

fr! getting to really connect with characters is how i know i found a really fun story/adventure

i havent!

is it a movie/show?

i also play video games a lot of the time so i try to balance my time between all my interests but its hard lol

yeah, there were competing interests between a lot of folks wanting the idol gone, jack overplaying the round and a lot of paranoia so i didnt have much left by the end of the tribal tbh cause it was very draining trying to make sense of it all

It’s a very popular TV show atm based on a book about ice hockey

It’s sooooooo good

That’s very very fair I definitely get that, I used to love playing video games

And the greatest part is we get to do it all over again😂😂😂

But the idol being out is good for sure

Oh hell yeah, I’ll check it out!

What kinda games were your favorite?

Yes! Happy that’s flushed fr fr

Been some confusion on who voted Theo and your name was mentioned to me as one of the people who might’ve so I swear I didn’t try to spread your name but I mentioned it might’ve been you when ppl asked me if I knew cause I believed someone who said you’d thought of voting Theo and then I guess went to bed cause time zones? That’s the story I got told and I just wanted to let you know I was indifferent as to whoever voted Theo cause that shit is gonna not be possible to prove even if someone claims it so like I just let your name go in one ear and out the other as to like, how much I cared if you’d voted him or not

But I wanted to let you know that so you know where my head is at

I was a sport nerd so like sport games like FIFA and NBA2k, Fortnite was cool but I suck at building so I like no build (I know so boring)

Yeah I got told that Theo was the vote before I went to bed and got super busy in the morning so didn’t open to app till tribal time where I saw Ricci went home and was well that changed 😅

There seems like be a lot of chaos, angst and messiness around

I assume you are close to Theo for bringing this up?

Fair enough!

Yeah and I don’t know everyone’s been quiet which always makes me nervous but I’m imagining it’s going to be another Jack vote

I like Theo yeah, and I want to help him out! Because it seems like Jack and Fuggles were really dead set on making a mess for him last round

What I don’t understand is why

Good morning! In the brief five minutes I’ve been online that’s what I’ve picked up

So what actually happened with Theo because I’ve heard so many rumours for him?

Like last round!

All I know is Theo was gone at the lodge for a while, and came back saying Fuggles is after his ass and will want me and Marissa next which I didn’t really listen to because that’s he said she said type of stuff that I can’t prove or disprove

Then in the middle of last round which had a lot of goings on about Jack Ricci mentions to me in the morning that “Jack and Fuggles” said Theo threw his (Ricci’s) name. I ask Jack who confirms this and says he didn’t believe Theo about Ricci trying to pull together a Jack or Clint vote, which Ricci happened to mention to me so I knew that part was true. So I tell Ricci that I happen to know Theo hasn’t mentioned wanting to vote Ricci to me at all, and somehow Ricci doesn’t believe me?? And says me and Theo (and Marissa) can’t be trusted) which gets back to me and since then I’ve just been tossing these tidbits around in my head but I don’t really know what started all this

And I told Ricci theo didn’t want to vote him because Theo has very specifically been wanting to vote Fuggles

Which Theo has told me

So I’m somehow caught up in something I don’t fully understand but that’s all I know about it

Ahh I see I see - so basically it seems that Jack and Fuggles through Theo under the bus and that got back to Ricci and when you tried to tell Ricci it wasn't true he didn't believe you and inturn called you and Theo, (Marissa by association) untrustworthy

Leading to you jumping on the Ricci vote out?

And was curious if I voted Theo?

You got it! I did patch things up with Ricci before the vote but based on even more shenanigans from Jack where he threatened to vote Theo I did not feel it would be fair to Theo to be voted based on all the circumstances so I voted to help him out

I imagined Jack might idol but I wasn’t the one who tipped him off

I think someone mentioned that you had

Clint maybe?

Idk

Ahh I see I see and that’s super valid reasoning

Yeah he asked me a couple days ago and I gave him the same answer I did to you

Ahhh ok

Just vote me out next time

We didn’t trust Marissa unfortunately and that’s why we did it. Completely understand why you’re pissed. I felt the same way after being left out of the Ricci vote

I said what I said last night because I’ve felt unheard for weeks when I’ve told so many people on this cast that we are not a duo/not close like that. And if no one’s heard me then just vote me because there’s not really a point in me staying

I’m not that mad at the move

It makes sense

I just didn’t realize that no one believed me when I was being honest

And that hurt more deeply than I expected

The Ricci vote is still so complicated I don’t know how to explain it but I know I upset folks with my part in it. I could’ve just voted Jack and been able to let Theo go like I thought was going to happen but instead I tried a last ditch effort to save him that I thought (if Clint and Sams weren’t lying to me about voting Ricci) would also help me patch things with them after voting Andrew

Because I didn’t think Theo deserved to go home that round as far as I knew he hadn’t done anything. And I felt like Fuggles and Jack were trying to have it all, keep Jack safe and get Theo gone like Fuggles wanted

And when people are being as manipulative as those two were being with Ricci that round I didn’t think they deserved to have it all.

That’s the whole tweet

Or whatever

Sorry for upsetting you it wasn’t my intention

I appreciate you opening up to me i definitely do

The reason I voted Marissa was simply I just didn’t trust her and her answers were very short and I’m not telling you anything so yeah

When I heard it I went along

Fair enough, I really can’t blame you, I had similar experiences in between times where she would communicate just a bit of what she was thinking she’d be MIA or completely vague

how is ryan today

I am insanely busy

This will definitely be my last org for a while

IRL is kicking my ass at the moment

How is Gem today?

aw man im sorry

irl can be a lot to juggle

no judgement from me! orgs take it out of me

i get it

gem was productive workwise, dealt with world of warcraft drama and im about to raid

just wanting to get to the weekend lol

thanks for asking me 🤍

Yeah just a busy time in my life

and for the next few monts

I know its sooooooo close

Friday late morning here for me

So super close

And you as well!

I’m sorry man I hope things chill out soon!!

You’re almost there!!!

I know you’re tight with Fuggles but I still have enjoyed talking to you even if you didn’t enjoy talking to me. I’m assuming I go here so thanks for the chats

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